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Pascale Chancey's avatar

I echo Janice Lagata: “when I want to be charitable I say evangelicalism is a net-negative. When I’m honest I know it is evil.” My bones demand to see the day where the whole edifice (systems) that produces and protects abusers in the name of a religion devoid of justice and empathy is torn down and held accountable for the hell on earth it created. We deserved better. Today’s children deserve better. Our planetary future depends on us doing better.

It’s wild to me how once you recognize the permission structures that sanctify abuse in one area (i.e RAP literature) you can spot its existence elsewhere. I’m examining various Charismatic Christian and mainstream evangelical “deliverance” methodologies that purport to bring inner freedom and identity alignment. They all have in common the demonization (to various degrees) of emotions and normal biological responses to trauma and unmet needs, the conditioning and sanctification of self-doubt and hypervigilance, and the stated goals of perfect submission or obedience to God (and by default, God’s mouthpieces) for missional efficiency. The victims are frequently vulnerable young adults or isolated individuals whose desire for purpose and meaningful connection gets exploited for controlling ends. Like RAP methods, God is turned into the ultimate surveillance system to keep people in-line and afraid of their autonomy and sovereignty.

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Mel's avatar

“None of this equipped children to stand up for themselves against abusive adults.“

Especially our own parents! It left no one for me/kids to safely talk to or feel like they’d be believed and harms and abuse addressed.

Makes me think that educators could benefit from training to understand RAP and resulting abuse, recognize fawning in children, and learn to be a safe adult whom a child could trust to talk to about what’s happening in their homes and churches.

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